Hey, Soul Sistas

The last two years has taught us to look more intospectively at ourselves. To question who we really are and what we want in life.

No longer are we willing to just drift along in life with no sense of purpose or direction, and hey you know, maybe our direction and focus has completely changed and that’s OK, what we have learnt up until now is absolutely OK it’s taught us valuable things in life, nothing is ever wasted or a waste of time good or bad.

One thing that has been highlighted and I’ve spoke with numerous people about is the change in relationships some better some worse. No matter what relationship that might be, partnership, friendships, work colleagues, family you name it, any relationship.

As we wake ourselves up and step into our true self we set boundaries of what we will tolerate and not, what we will settle for and what we won’t. As we grow our values and beliefs change, and it’s being aware that not everyone grows at the same rate as you do and that’s OK, we all have our own path and journey to go on. As no two journeys are the same.

You may love someone whole heartedly but your relationship needs are not met and the love you have for someone just isn’t enough on its own, you need the communication and not just the mundane, you need the deep conversations about life, about your deepest parts of each other, your fears, your fondest memories. You need the spontenaity and impromptu calls of love, walks, drives to nice places and the wee trips away. You need to nurture and be nurtured. You need to be you without question.

You need the friendships that fulfill you and bring the best out in you as you do to them. The girly or manly chats and pamper fun, the shoulder to cry on. When the friendships are based on you just being you, whether they like what your opinion is or not and vice versa there’s no judgement just love and friendship. There for each other no matter what, there’s no agenda, there’s no questions, just being.

Sometimes though, we have to withdraw and retreat and that’s OK because you need to evaluate what’s worth the expenditure of time and energy because you can’t get that back, and let’s face it time and energy are precious. Life and people, all have to be worth the time and energy as we only get one shot at it, and it has to be a two way street.

Life is what you make it and only you can decide on that.

We are stepping now into a time where we need to be honest and true to ourselves and our beliefs.

Where you can no longer hide, you can no longer have a positive influence on others if you are not following the advice you give out, the masks are slipping – authenticity is at the core. Already we can see truths coming out globally and personally. You have to be your own leader, with truth and integrity, lead by example. People now need to be shown the way, not told.

We need to see how to be empowered

We need to see how to be successful

We need to see how to be ourself

We need to see without the masks

We need to see vulnerability at its rawest

We need to see its OK to be perfectly imperfect

How do you want to lead your life?

Are you ready to be seen?

What does the authentic you look like?

Plenty food for thought. You are all that matters, do what’s good for you and your soul and you won’t go wrong, follow your heart.

Lots of love Heather xXx